Figuring out who your friends are used to be pretty straight forward. Rarely did anyone I know have more than a handful of best buddies, but in the age of Facebook there’s nowhere to hide and in ten seconds flat you’ve got yourself hundreds of so-called ‘friends’ in your cyber-social network. At least with neighbours there’s no ambiguity. They either live next door to you or they don’t. Except in Byron Bay where, if you live in a holiday rental area, it’s a traveling circus. But that’s another story.
The risk with doing a show with this theme,of course, is that the songs tend to lean towards the warm and fuzzy, so I’ve made sure that if I have included a little bit of cheese, then its good cheese! The brie of pop, in fact. Personally, I prefer a gritty, more realistic look at friendships, so it was a diverse range of viewpoints that we presented in this week’s show. I also went out of my way to exclude any song that’s been used as a theme for a sit-com or reality tv series. And that was hard I tell you. Goodbye Dandy Warhols, The Rembrandts, Stevie Wonder and others.
We opened the show with some pure pop – the Spice Girls, way back when they really were friends, with WANNABE. Yeah, if you wannabe my lover, you better get on with my friends. Well, it’s a given isn’t it? The official video of the song isn’t that great, but you have to give them credit for a clip made with one continuous shot. Check it out:
The uncomplicated friendships formed at school are the source of a number of songs. The White Stripes with, most possibly, their gentlest track, WE ARE GOING TO BE FRIENDS, was followed by The Clash’s wonderful, yet underrated, STAY FREE – a song written by guitarist Mick Jones about his best mate at school who ended up in prison.
Bill Withers’ LEAN ON ME is a genuine heart-warmer. Some may think its cheesy, but to me it transcends that label and represents one of the classic friendship songs. Corrine Bailey Rae gives a nod to Bob Marley in PUT YOUR RECORDS ON: “three little birds sat on my window and they told me that I don’t need to worry.” A beautiful song about the supportive nature of friendship.
Michelle Shocked song ANCHORAGE is about friendship that’s expressed in letters going back and forth. The song touchingly and poignantly captures the pleasure of discovering a friend’s new life while realizing that life moves on and different paths must be followed.
There were at least three songs from The Beatles that fitted the theme but I chose IN MY LIFE, over the more obvious I GET BY WITH A LITTLE HELP FROM MY FRIENDS. Because I can.
BAD NEIGHBOURHOOD by Ronny & The Delinquents is notable for the fact that the band included Dr John before he became Dr. John. Malcolm Rebennack (his real name), was a guitarist in that band but his career almost came to an end when his left ring finger was injured by a gunshot while he was defending singer/keyboardist Ronnie Barron. After the injury, Rebennack concentrated on bass guitar before making piano his main instrument; pianist Professor Longhair was an important influence on Rebennack’s style.
Pioneering gospel and blues singer Sister Rosetta Tharpe had some good advice: DON’T TAKE EVERYBODY TO BE YOUR FRIEND. While Jerry McCain and His Upstarts had a whinge: MY NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOUR is a very amusing song about a neighbour that can’t stop borrowing stuff.
Not all companionship is welcome. Morrissey comments on the Manchester music scene in WE HATE IT WHEN OUR FRIENDS BECOME SUCCESSFUL. And in ARE ‘FRIENDS’ ELECTRIC? Gary Numan mixes genuine feelings of alienation with Philip K. Dick’s sci-fi fantasies to create a story of a man whose robot buddy has broken down. Awwww.
The Arcade Fire gave us NEIGHBORHOOD #2 from their Funeral album. The song is actually about Laika the first dog to have been sent into outer space, as the song goes, “for the good of the neighborhood”. Hey, isn’t the dog supposed to be man’s best friend? Quite a sad song, really.
Feeling the the need for some R&B to cheer me up so it was the Four Tops with a message that everyone needs to hear every now and again: REACH OUT I’LL BE THERE. And I never tire of the beautiful voice of Dido singing THANK YOU. Here she is with a fantastic acoustic performance of the song:
Country singers George Jones and Melba Montgomery take neighbourly love to a whole new level with LET’S INVITE THEM OVER. I must admit that today’s show throws a whole new light on our country cousins, doesn’t it?
War wanted to know WHY CAN’T WE BE FRIENDS? and The Lemonheads delivered a brutally honest song about a certain kind of dependent relationship: MY DRUG BUDDY. Here’s Evan Dando performing the track live with Chris Brokaw:
Sheryl Crowe’s song THERE GOES THE NEIGHBOURHOOD won a Grammy award in 2001 for Best Female Rock Performance but failed to chart in America. Go figure.
The Cars got all sooky on us with MY BEST FRIENDS GIRL. Yeah, she used to be mine. Oh well thems the breaks guys. Love and friendship is a complex mix. REO Speedwagon told us (they) HEARD IT FROM MY BEST FRIEND. Oh Oh. Can’t be good news. But we had a solution that may interest some: Rachel Yamagata tackled the the concept of bonk buddies in SIDEDISH FRIEND. Here she is performing the song on KCRW radio in 2008:
Even our country singer friends like the idea of a bit on the side. Conway Twitty & Loretta Lyn asked WHAT’S A LITTLE LOVE BETWEEN FRIENDS? Indeedy.
The Grateful Dead’s song FRIEND OF THE DEVIL is from their American Beauty album and the song, like most of the album, is acoustic. It is known for the riff lead guitarist Jerry Garcia plays and it’s the most covered of the Dead’s songlist.
Patti Labelle is at her best when she sings YOU ARE MY FRIEND. Great song, great voice, simple as that. Here she is in her very first live video with the bonus of an amazing intro from Debbie Henry. The year was 1991.
Now how many times have you heard someone say, after they’ve broken up with someone, that not only were they losing a lover they were losing their best friend? Blues artist Little Walter bemoaned the fact in LAST NIGHT.
It was time for a mood lifter and a couple of songs about Neighbours gave us just that. The Small Faces song LAZY SUNDAY (“Wouldn’t it be nice to get on wiv me neighbours) was suggested by Beck. Great. A perfect companion piece was the Rolling Stones, who also don’t seem to be getting on with their NEIGHBOURS. Do you think it might have something to do with them being rock bands? Here are the Stones performing live in Tempe Arizona during their 1981 tour:
Love, love, love DEAD END FRIENDS from Them Crooked Vultures, the rock supergroup formed in 2009 by John Paul Jones, (Led Zeppelin), Dave Grohl (Nirvana/Foo Fighters) and Josh Homme (Queens of the Stone Age). Go Dave!
It always make me a little sad to listen to Freddie Mercury who died way too young but I had to include Queen’s YOU’RE MY BEST FRIEND:
Herman’s Hermits song MY SENTIMENTAL FRIEND sums up a lot of the material in today’s show including our very last song YOU’VE GOT A FRIEND, from Dusty Springfield covering the Carole King standard. That one was for Victoria.
A big thank you to Zoe for helping out with this week’s show.
Next week in the lead up to Anzac Day and the Australian Day of Remembrance, I’m dedicating the show to MEMORY. So, get your thinking caps on and send my your suggestions.
Here’s the playlist:
Wannabe – Spice Girls
We Are Going To Be Friends – The White Stripes
Stay Free – The Clash
Put Your Records On – Corrine Bailey Rae
Lean On Me – Bill Withers
Anchorage – Michelle Shocked
In My Life – The Beatles
Bad Neighbourhood – Ronny & the Delinquents
Don’t Take Everybody To Be Your Friend- Sister Rosetta Tharpe
My Next Door Neighbour – Jerry McCain And His Upstarts
We Hate It When Our Become Successful – Morrissey
Are ‘Friends’ Electric -Gary Numan + Tubeway Army
Neighborhood #2 (Laika) – The Arcade Fire
Reach Out I’ll Be There – The Four Tops
Thank You – Dido
Let’s Invite Them Over – George Jones & Melba Montgomery
Why Can’t We Be Friends – War
My Drug Buddy – The Lemonheads
There Goes The Neighbourhood – Sheryl Crow
My Best Friends Girl – The Cars
Heard It From A Friend – REO Speedwagon
Sidedish Friend – Rachael Yamagata
What’s A Little Love Between Friends – Conway Twitty & Lorretta Lyn
Friend of the Devil – Grateful Dead
You Are My Friend – Patti Labelle
Last Night – Little Walter
Lazy Sunday – The Small Faces
Neighbours – The Rolling Stones
Dead End Friends – Them Crooked Vultures
You’re My Best Friend – Queen
My Sentimental Friend – Herman’s Hermits
You’ve Got A Friend – Dusty Springfield
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I’m addicted to the TV show PIMP MY RIDE. I would love for those guys to get my beaten up old Subaru and turn it into a low ridin’ bitchin’ machine. But that’s never going to happen. Next best thing: use the Theme Park radio show to promote AUTOMOBILES. And what better way to start the program than with Kraftwerk’s AUTOBAHN. It’s a driving song that eliminates the human driver and instead presents a very cool interpretation of machines on the move.
Things heated up with The Beach Boys’ ode to teenage freedom – FUN, FUN, FUN, and then it was time for the 1951 single often regarded as the first ever rock’n’roll record. Jackie Brenston’s ROCKET 88 celebrates the Oldsmobile 88. Metaphor lovers, however, will quickly cotton on that the real object of Jackie’s enthusiasm may not be a car.
Living in a rural area, we couldn’t leave tractors out of the playlist, so here’s a song dedicated to all the farmers out there: Jason Aldean with BIG GREEN TRACTOR.
Prince’s first big hit, LITTLE RED CORVETTE, takes automotive innuendo as far as it will go. A little trivia for you: Stevie Nicks got the idea for her 1983 song STAND BACK from LITTLE RED CORVETTE. She heard Prince’s song in her car, wrote STAND BACK that night, and called Prince, who came into the studio and played keyboards.
It was time for two of the great blues singers: Junior Parker likes to think that, as far as his relationship is concerned, he’s the DRIVING WHEEL; the wonderful Memphis Minnie isn’t sure that sitting in the passenger seat is for her, however, in ME AND MY CHAUFFEUR BLUES.
Tracy Chapman sees the car as a means of escape from a dead-end life. But her ambition isn’t matched by a boyfriend who turns out to be just like her hard-drinking Dad. Being the smart girl she is, her advice is for him to take his FAST CAR and keep on drivin’.
I couldn’t leave out the ever reliable bus as a mode of transport and the Hollies filled the slot nicely with their 1966 hit, BUS STOP. And another 60’s gem we had to play was the Beatles with BABY YOU CAN DRIVE MY CAR.
Time then for the bearded ones: ZZ Top reckon that SHE LOVES MY AUTOMOBILE. Well, of course. Two more excellent songs followed. Firstly, The Modern Lovers track ROADRUNNER, a song that has been good to Theme Park as it was also used on the show dedicated to RADIO. And then it was the Primus track JERRY WAS A RACE CAR DRIVER. A show on automobiles, however, would not be complete without Chuck Berry who sang one of the great auto songs: MAYBELLENE. The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame included three of Chuck Berry’s songs (Johnny B Goode, Maybellene and Rock and Roll Music), in the list of 500 songs that shaped Rock and Roll.
The lovely Quentin, who hosts Q’s Jazz & Blues on BayFM, called in with a request: MOTORVATIN’ MAMA from The Rhythm Kings. Some very sexy symbolism running riot there Q! I paired it with Mic Conway’s National Junk Band singing WHO GAVE YOU A LICENCE TO DRIVE ME CRAZY? A great cabaret act and it was terrific to see them at this year’s Blues Festival.
A change of pace when Chris Spedding and the Vibrations praised the art of MOTOR BIKIN’ and The Clash bragged about a BRAND NEW CADILLAC. Check out The Clash performing live at the US Festival in ’83.
A re-discovery for me was Yello. A Swiss group that has been recording since the 80’s, they have escaped my attention of late. But their song THE RACE was absolutely perfect for the show and had to be included. Check out this mad clip:
In CAR WHEELS ON A GRAVEL ROAD, the five-year-old Lucinda Williams is a reluctant passenger who watches “telephone poles, trees and wires fly by”, from the back seat, while her parents make plans in front. This song served as a quite beautiful breather because it was soon time to fasten our seatbelts in preparation for some serious rock ‘n’ roll: Deep Purple with HIGHWAY STAR, Steppenwolf with BORN TO BE WILD and Jimi Hendrix with CROSSTOWN TRAFFIC. This triple play had all the BayFM volunteers and office staff up and dancing in the green room! Who knew work could be so much fun?
I was happy to include a couple of listener requests: RADAR LOVE from Golden Earring and Gary Numan’s most enduring hit, CARS. According to Numan, the song’s lyrics were inspired by an incident of road rage: “I was in traffic in London once and had a problem with some people in front. They tried to beat me up and get me out of the car. I locked the doors and eventually drove up on the pavement and got away from them. It’s kind of to do with that. It explains how you can feel safe inside a car in the modern world… When you’re in it, your whole mentality is different… It’s like your own little personal empire with four wheels on it”. Still going strong, here’s Gary back in the day:
A little plug before I go: BayFM is a volunteer based, community radio station dedicated to bringing our listeners intelligent, informative and entertaining programming. We are totally reliant on subscriptions to keep the station on air. So, if you want to support independent radio you can go to http://www.bayfm.org and subscribe online. We would really appreciate it. And if you ask to be acknowledged on the Theme Park show I promise to give you a big shout-out. But, best of all, you go into the draw for all kinds of prizes. The top one this year is an all expenses trip to the Glastonbury Festival. That’s airfares, camping fees, entry fees, spending money!
Roy Orbison was back with a vengeance and he closed the show with I DROVE ALL NIGHT. The patron saint of Theme Park Radio showed why he is one of my favourite singers.
Here’s this week playlist:
Autobahn – Kraftwerk
Fun Fun Fun – The Beach Boys
Rocket 88 – Jackie Brenston
Big Green Tractor – Jason Aldean
Little Red Corvette – Prince
Me And My Chauffeur Blues – Memphis Minnie
Drivin’ Wheel – Junior Parker
Fast Car – Tracy Chapman
Bus Stop – The Hollies
Baby You Can Drive My Car – Beatles
She Loves My Automobile – ZZ Top
Jerry Was a Race Car Driver – Primus
Roadrunner – The Modern Lovers
Maybelline – Chuck Berry
Motorvatin Mama – Rhythm Kings
Who Gave You A Licence To Drive Me Crazy? – Mic Conway’s National Junk Band
Motor Bikin’ – Chris Spedding & The Vibrations
Brand New Cadillac – The Clash
The Race – Yello
Low Rider – War
Car Wheels On A Gravel Road – Lucinda Williams
Highway Star – Deep Purple
Born to Be Wild – Steppenwolf
Crosstown Traffic – Jimi Hendrix
Radar Love – Golden Earring
Cars – Gary Numan
I Drove All Night – Roy Orbison
Next week: Celebrating Fathers Day here in Australia on September 6, so FATHERS it is. Any requests?
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